What is a Holistic Sex Therapist? 

A holistic sex therapist works with mind, body, and spirit, combining the science of human sexuality with compassionate guidance.  

With honest conversations in a safe confidential environment, you will:

• Take your understanding of sex to a whole new level
• Gain insight into your unique sexual experiences
• Become more empowered and self-aware
• Learn tools and practices to lead a more fulfilling sexual life

"We must become the lover we are looking for" - Jane Roder

Who Comes to Sex Therapy?

Singles, couples, and people of all ages come to:

• Understand themselves better
• Find answers
• Expand their knowledge of sexual health and wellbeing

About Me 

I’ve been fascinated by sexual integrity, morality, and all the complexities and nuances of sexuality since my teenage years. My journey led me to:

• Research the neuroscience of sex and orgasm
• Explore the psychology of sex and sexuality
• Learn the ancient wisdoms of Sacred Sex, Karezza, and Tantra

As a mature woman with much life experience, I guide clients with compassion, knowledge, spiritual insights, and practical tools. I also meditate and pray before sessions to ensure what is channeled through me is for your highest good. This creates space for breakthroughs and transformation.

I stay at the forefront of scientific and spiritual research, ensuring you receive cutting-edge guidance.

In 2014, I wrote “What We Aren’t Told About Sex”

What Happens in Holistic Sex Therapy?

We explore:

• Physical health
• Family & childhood experiences
• Personal beliefs
• Current & past relationship patterns
• The mind body spirit connection

Everything is confidential and judgment-free.

Tip: Homework or exercises may be assigned to practice skills and deepen self-awareness between sessions.

The Most Asked Questions I Hear

In my work, I hear the same questions repeatedly—from singles, couples, and people of all ages. They fall into these patterns:

Desire & Libido

• “ I don’t want sex as much as my partner, how do we deal with this?"
• “Why has my libido disappeared?”
• “Is mismatched libido a deal-breaker?”

Orgasms & Pleasure

• “Is it normal that I can’t orgasm?”
• “Why does orgasm take so long or only happen alone?”
• “Why cant I orgasm with penetration?”

Pain & Discomfort

• “Why does sex hurt?”
• “Is pain during sex normal?”

Anxiety, Shame & ‘Am I Normal?’

• “Is my fantasy normal?”
• “Why do I feel anxious or numb during sex?”
• “Why can’t I stay present?”
• "How do I stop watching so much porn and/or going to sex workers?"
• "Is there something wrong with me?”

Relationships & Communication

• “How can I talk to my partner about our sex life without hurting them?”
• “What if my partner wants something I don’t?”
• “Can a relationship survive without sex or with unsatisfactory sex?”
• “My partner's behaviours turn me off sex. How can I get them to change?"

Changes Over Time

• “Why has our sex life changes so much since we first met ?”
• “Can desire come back after a long break?”
• “Is it normal to want different things now?”

Trust, Trauma & Betrayal

• "Is my childhood sexual trauma affecting me sexually?”
• “Can intimacy heal after betrayal or infidelity?”
• “Why doesn't my body react even when my mind wants sex?”

Bodies, Hormones & Ageing

•  “Do hormones really affect sex that much?”
• “Does testosterone matter for women?”
• “Is erectile dysfunction psychological or physical and what causes it?
• "How do I stop premature ejaculation?"

Orientation, Identity & Desire Patterns

• “Am I asexual or do I just have low desire?”
• “Why am I continually sexually interested in others when I am happily married?”
• “Can kink and/ or an open relationship be beneficial?
• Am I gay or bi- sexual?

 The underlying question:

“Is there something wrong with me and can this situation change?”

 Answer:

You are not broken. And yes, change is possible with you commitment to change.

 Sex therapy, combined with relationship counseling, can help with:

• Self-esteem & body image
• Mismatched libido
• Communication & conflict resolution
• Erectile dysfunction
• Premature or delayed ejaculation
• Difficulty having an orgasm
• Infidelity & Trust
• Excessive porn use, Only Fans & Sex Workers
• Sexual addiction / compulsivity
• Vaginismus, vulvodynia, dyspareunia, lichen sclerosis
• Cultural & religious issues
• Stress, anxiety, depression & medication effects
• Sexuality & parenting
• Sex and conception
• Sexual identity issues

Optional Web Enhancements / Callouts

1. Book Callout:

What We Aren’t Told About Sex

“A practical guide to understanding and mastering the deeper aspects of Sex ”

"Incredibly insightful and well researched. It heralds a paradigm shift and transfromation of conventional beliefs about sexual behaviour. The author challenges the reader to explore and discover alternatives that are both revolutionary and practical. Essential reading for a successful and fulfilling relationship" - Anthony Walburgh, Teacher