What is a Sex Therapist? 

A holistic sex therapist works with mind, body, and spirit, combining the science of human sexuality with compassionate guidance.  

With honest conversations, you will:

•  Gain insight into your unique sexual experience
• Become more empowered and self-aware
• Learn tools and practices to lead a more fulfilling sexual life

About Me 

I’ve been fascinated by sexual integrity, morality, and the complexities of sexuality since my teenage years. My journey led me to:

•  Study the neuroscience of sex and orgasm
• Explore psychology of sexuality
• Learn ancient wisdom of Sacred Sex, Karezza, and Tantra

In 2014, I wrote “What We Aren’t Told About Sex”

As a mature woman, I guide clients with compassion, sharing knowledge, spiritual insights, and practical tools. I pray before sessions to ensure what is channeled is for your highest good, creating space for breakthroughs and transformation.

I stay at the forefront of scientific and spiritual research, ensuring you receive cutting-edge, tailored guidance.

What Happens in Sex Therapy?

Your first session is about understanding your story and experiences. We may explore:

• Physical health
• Family & childhood experiences
• Spiritual beliefs about relationships and sexuality
• Current & past relationship pattern

 Everything is confidential and judgment-free.

Tip: Homework or exercises may be assigned to practice skills and deepen self-awareness between sessions.

Common Concerns & Questions

Clients often ask:

“I think I have a sex addiction; how do I know?”

 “We want to feel closer but feel stuck.”

 “Sex is painful—can this be fixed?”

 “I’m not attracted to my partner anymore—can attraction come back?”

 “We haven’t had sex for years - how can we recover from this? 

The Most Asked Questions I Hear

In my work, I hear the same questions repeatedly—from singles, couples, and people of all ages. They fall into these patterns:

Desire & Libido

• “ I don’t want sex as much as my partner, how do we deal with this?"
• “Why has my libido disappeared?”
• “Can stress, menopause, or medication affect desire?”
• “Is mismatched libido a deal-breaker?”

Orgasms & Pleasure

• “Is it normal that I can’t orgasm?”
• “Why does orgasm take so long or only happen alone?”
• “Why did orgasms change with age or menopause?”
• “Can you orgasm from penetration alone?”

Pain & Discomfort

• “Why does sex hurt?”
• “Is pain during sex normal?”
• “What is vaginismus or vulvodynia?”
• “Can pelvic floor tension cause sexual pain?”

Anxiety, Shame & ‘Am I Normal?’

• “Am I broken?”
• “Is my fantasy normal?”
• “Why do I feel anxious or numb during sex?”
• “Why can’t I stay present?”
• "How do I stop watching so much porn?"

Relationships & Communication

• “How do I talk to my partner about sex and my resentments without hurting them?”
• “What if my partner wants something I don’t?”
• “Can a relationship survive without sex or with unsatisfactory sex?”
• “Is emotional intimacy more important than sex?”

Changes Over Time

• “Why did sex change after kids, menopause, or illness?”
• “Is it normal to want different things now?”
• “Can desire come back after a long break?”

Orientation, Identity & Desire Patterns

• “Am I asexual or just low desire?”
• “Why am I attracted to something unexpected?”
• “Can kink and/ or an open relationship be beneficial?

Trust, Trauma & Betrayal

• “How does trauma affect sex?”
• “Can intimacy heal after betrayal or infidelity?”
• “Why does my body react even when my mind wants sex?”

 Bodies, Hormones & Ageing

• “Do hormones really affect sex that much?”
• “Does testosterone matter for women?”
• “Is erectile dysfunction psychological or physical and what causes it?

 The underlying question:

“Is this normal—and can it get better?”

 Answer:

 Yes, you’re not broken. And yes, change is possible.

Who Comes to Sex Therapy?

Singles, couples, and people of all ages come to:

• Understand themselves better
• Find answers
• Expand knowledge of sexual health and wellbeing

 Sex therapy, combined with relationship counseling, can help with:

•  Self-esteem & body image
• Mismatched libido
• Communication & conflict resolution
• Erectile dysfunction
• Premature or delayed ejaculation
• Difficulty having an orgasm
• Infidelity & Trust
• Excessive porn use, Only Fans & Sex Workers
• Sexual addiction / compulsivity
• Vaginismus, vulvodynia, dyspareunia, lichen sclerosis
• Cultural & religious issues
• Stress, anxiety, depression & medication effects
• Sexuality & parenting
• Sex and conception
• Sexual identity issues

Optional Web Enhancements / Callouts

1. Book Callout:

What We Aren’t Told About Sex

“A guide to understanding sexuality beyond what you were taught.”

Working with Jane helped me reconnect with my partner in ways I never thought possible.” - Emma

Why Sex Therapy Works:

• Non-judgmental, safe space
• Practical tools & exercises
• Holistic approach: mind, body, spirit
• Evidence-based & up-to-date research